Wednesday, June 24, 2009

The 1 Mistake ALL Nice Guys Make - Tips for Flirting

Tips for Flirting

Nice Guys love to talk to women. They relish the chance to make "a connection" and hopefully find something that can bring his object of desire closer to to him. Like the high school kid who can't afford the cool leather jacket and can't convince his parents to buy it for him.

What does he do?

He gets a job. Problem solved. Now he might keep that job or he might quit after he gets enough to but the jacket... the point is that he solved his problem. Nice Guys take the same approach. But the way they do this is they look for "a connection." This is the first and biggest mistake. Does this work? Sometimes, but as Nietzsche said, that is mistaking cause with coincidence.

It works but she would have liked you anyway! Now you mistakenly believe it was the connection that gave you the edge. And since that isn't the case at all you'll fail many times between the times you don't fail. But you'll keep looking for the "connection" because you think it's the key.

Creating attraction is the only tip for flirting that need ever be headed. It you don't do that then there is little or no hope.

Don't look for the "connection" instead do the work yourself. Create attraction...

Look to my other posts for some tips to do that.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Cute Date Ideas - Top 7

Cute Date Ideas are something you can use with all the dating tips and flirting advice you're learning. Where you have your date and help or hurt but how you have your date is far more important. But that's for different posts. Here we'll just talk about a few cool places you can go that will give you some "points" and allow you to run game in a great environment.

Cute Date Ideas...

Idea # 1 - What the most romantic place in your area. Often this will be somewhere that you can see but don't necessarily have to pay for. An amazing river, the Grand Canyon, the edge of a National Park, or even take an hour or two to drive some place really great.

Idea # 2 - Fork out a little cash and go to a romantic restaurant. Let me be really clear about this. This MUST be a place she has NOT been to before. Trust me on this, new locations trigger instinctual responses in women. That's good. If you don't want to spend too much just find a little mom and pop joint with low lighting and a great priced menu. As long as she hasn't been there... she will love it!

Idea # 3 - Hotel Rooms. Don't do Budget Inn, but find something inexpensive but quaint if you're on a budget but don't ask her opinion about it. Don't ask if she likes the mountains, or this style hotel or a hotel in that place. She will love it if you're doing it for her.

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Idea # 4 - Picnics are just about the best! A little basket of food, couple candles and maybe a nice back drop. Just something relatively quiet and peaceful.

Idea # 5 - Create something nice but simple that "looks back" on your time together. The good times. How you met, places you've gone and the like. It doesn't need to be pictures... it can be a poem, a story, a slide show of pictures or cartoons you've drawn with a "dramatic" telling of your love...

Idea # 6 - Get a digital camera and tell her you're both going to "act out" all the fun steps of your relationship. This can go in any direction you like, use your imagination.

Idea # 7 - A rose with breakfast and some printed coupons for "special favors". Women LOVE getting this kind of stuff.

Just that list there of Cute Date Ideas will get you back to a flirting and dating atmosphere in no time!